There is a ton
of advice on how to convey the right message with body language during an
interview; but much of it is so tedious that it risks overwhelming most job
candidates. For example, telling
job candidates to avoid tilting their head and to never touch their face could
end up making them more self-conscious than necessary during an interview. So how does a job candidate make sure
that they’re sending the right message with their body language? Start from the
inside and work their way out:
1.
Approach
the job interview with the right attitude. You are not in a position of “beggar” asking for some great
favor from the interviewer. Know that you bring value to the table and that you
are both investigating the possibility of enter
ing into an employment
relationship. With the right outlook as you go into the interview you will
avoid taking on body language that conveys feelings of inferiority or
insecurity.
2.
Wear
comfortable but professional clothing and make sure you’re well groomed. What you wear and the way you look does
impact body language. People who feel good about the way they look communicate
that confidence in the way they walk, sit and talk to others.
3.
Release
any attachment to the outcome of the interview. Accept the fact that you have no power to control whether or
not the employer will hire you.
Just accepting that you cannot control the hiring manager’s decisions
will allow you to relax more and avoid taking on defensive postures such as
folding your arms over your chest.