Being unemployed
for more than a few months can cause any job seeker to begin losing faith in
their abilities. And in extreme
cases, long-term unemployment can trigger depression and an overwhelming
feeling of despair and hopelessness.
Fighting feelings of despair and hopelessness is integral to giving
yourself the best chances of ending your spell of unemployment. But how does one fight the job search
blues? Below are a few
suggestions:
- Put
things into perspective. This is a
recession. Being in a recession
means that periods of unemployment will last longer than during boom
times. It is unrealistic to expect
that a few months of looking for a job will turn up a hot offer. While finding a job quickly might
happen, it is not likely during a recession.
- Set
realistic and attainable goals.
Saying that you’re going to find a job in 2 months is not a realistic
goal during a recession. But
saying that you will send out 20 resumes a month is a realistic and attainable
goal.
- Give
yourself a break and reward for accomplishing your goals. If you did what you said you would do
during your job search then take the timed to reward yourself. Also, don’t work so hard on your job
search that you become burnt out.
Take off the weekend and create set hours where you work on your job
search and when you take a break.
- Join
a job search support group and if one does not exist then create one of your
own. Being with others who are also struggling with a job search will help you
understand that you are not alone and will allow you to get the emotional
support you need.
- If
you become depressed over your job search, seek therapy. There are many low-cost and free
counseling services in most major cities.