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At A Loss For Words When Networking? Here Are A Few Conversation Starters

by Beverly Aarons 13. August 2009 09:22
Unless you're a social butterfly, networking can be quite nerve-racking.  It's hard enough to just "get out there" but once you arrive what exactly do you do to "network."  Below are a few conversation starters that can break the ice and help you connect to the right people at any networking event you attend.

Conversation Starter # 1 - "Is this your first time here?"  This easy conversation starter is no-pressure for the other person. It also gives them an easy "comeback" line "No, how about you?"

Conversation Starter # 2 - "This (restaurant, hotel, conference, speech, workshop etc.) is really great.  Have you been here before?"  This is another rendition of the first conversation starter; but it is sweeter because you're adding a positive statement about something.  The statement "The (blank) is great!" can be used with almost any object in the room such as the food, architectural design and it can also be used to reference a speaker, a book or info pamphlet that was sold or handed out at the event.  But be careful; avoid commenting on the person's appearance.  Comments such as "Your hair is nice," "You have a beautiful outfit" or "You have a beautiful smile" may not go over well.

Conversation Starter # 3 - "(Blank) told me you (insert accomplishment). It must have been quite a challenge."  This conversation starter works well because it combines flattery with an invitation for the other person to talk about their accomplishments without the appearance of bragging.   

Now remember, the reason they're called conversation starters is because they are used to "start" conversations.  Don't be afraid to walk up to someone at your next networking event and begin talking to them using one of the above easy conversation starters.

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